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Old 02-01-2009, 07:35 PM   #87 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by Plato View Post
As crazy as it sounds, the best way to help a PUA is to show them love... it dissolves the pain, fear and intimidation. You have to be careful with that though. Darkworkers may take your love as a sign that you can be exploited. Either that or they won't think you are sincere. Tis difficult!
I couldn't agree more! It's also possible these PUA's have grown up with extremely overbearing women around them, and therefore have learned to fear women instead of love them. So it is unfortunately a vicious cycle, nobody's gonna give them love unless they learn to give love themselves. You get what you give.
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