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Originally Posted by MidasGirl  So it is true then-the general feeling by PUA outsiders that these PUA trainers are basically exploiting low self esteem guys? I mean, how hard is it to teach a person that is already filled with an obvious loathing for women, and blames them for all his problems, that what he needs to do is to become a jerk toward them? If they were the real men they claim to be, try teaching these boys to actually learn to raise their consciousness level, which would automatically attract women to them like a magnet. But then again, that takes too much work don't it? |
Erm... maybe it is exploitation? I don't know. It depends on your perspective.
To say PUA's loathe women isn't the full picure. PUA's are generally coming from a
fear based perspective. Loving connections are incompatible with fear.
As crazy as it sounds, the best way to help a PUA is to show them love... it dissolves the pain, fear and intimidation. You have to be careful with that though. Darkworkers may take your love as a sign that you can be exploited. Either that or they won't think you are sincere. Tis difficult!