If you want to change someone else, it means you need to make a corresponding change in yourself to be able to influence the other person.
Focus on the internal change, such as becoming more compassionate, a better listener, more assertive, less fearful of helping others, less attached to others' results, more inspiring, a better example, etc.
What kind of person would you have to become to help this person? What kind of person would have already done it by now?
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