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Originally Posted by seeker5  Yeah, so you love someone unconditionally, but no way you'd want them over for dinner. I dunno, I feel I'd rather have someone who doesn't love me, but who'd love to have me over for dinner compared to someone who loves me unconditionally but doesn't want to eat dinner with me. |
Would you rather, spent time at dinner with someone, who doesn't accept you for who you are, or not have dinner with someone who accept every part of what you are? In wich case, would you feel more freedom?
That is where most problems originate from and that is why it's called conditional love. We always ecspect people, to behave the way we want them to behave in order to be able to love them. We go through life doing things for people, when we don't feel like, others are doing the same for us. A whole world of unhappy people, trying to please, in order to be loved.
What about free choice. That is what unconditional love is, let people be. Love the life and it's expression in all it's forms. Don't expect to get nothing out of it.