I'm more mystified by "ratings" than anything else. Maybe it's a woman-thing, but meeting new people, either we connect or don't, and either I feel equivalent-enough, or that it's an unequal teacher/student older/younger richer/poorer dynamic. Assuming no other commitments/reasons-why-not, I'll sleep with anyone I feel I connect with, I'm willing to be the teacher/provider or the innocent pet in a friendship, but I'll only get in a relationship with someone I feel relatively equal to. Of course for me "hotness" is a fairly minor component in my appraisal of men, the overwhelming factors are intelligence, kindness, and unselfconscioussness, so maybe numbers only naturally apply to physical appearance?
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