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Originally Posted by funchy  If she still cares anything about you, she'll be wiling to recognize how hard it is for you to admit these mistakes.
If it's the last straw, then the relationship was probably not going to last anyway. Better for you that you had a chance to make things right before it did end. |
I completely agree... I'm just trying not to panic over the worst case...
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Originally Posted by funchy I might suggest that it's all in how this information is presented. I wouldn't just hand her the list of mistakes and let her deal with it. I'd preface it... |
That is exactly the sort of thing I don't think about when I'm in this panicked place... Thank you for reminding me that I can try to ease things, even if it just alittle bit in relation to things.
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Originally Posted by funchy suggest she keep control of the checkbooks and credit cards for the remainder of the year, and you live off an allowance. Show her that you're changing things to make it impossible for these same mistakes to keep happening. |
This idea came up in our last argument... I think it's time that I volunteer
whatever she needs to feel confident about this from now on, period.
Thank you greatly for helping me release some of the panic and approach this more as an apology than a funeral...