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Originally Posted by smilingaway  I found the part about women being attracted to more dominant men interesting. My boyfriend is not as outspoken as me and tends to hold back when it comes to vocalizing complaints/irritations/thoughts. I discussed this with him tonight and i found it helpful. He realizes that he needs to be more of the dominant man that is attractive to me. Instead of always letting me pick the resturant, he needs to tell me where he wants to go and that we should go there. |
Aye, it's something I am working on myself, which is probably the reason I brought it up in the first place. I suppose it is more a matter of him building confidence and standing up for himself, than trying to "play" being a dominant macho.
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Originally Posted by smilingaway While I appreciate your thoughts about sex before marriage, I believe it is better to wait. It's something I have been committed to doing since I was a teenager and I want to stay committed to this goal of mine. But it has crossed my mind and my boyfriend and I have discussed it many of times. |
Of course, by all means do as you feel right. Personally, I do not believe in marriage before sex since I consider sexuality an important part of a love relationship, a part I certainly would want to explore with a woman before I would marry her. Funny how people come to different ideas about things like this :-D
Good luck with your relationship-improvements!