On this board, like on others, I find again and again EXCUSES, EXCUSE, EXCUSES not to get involved in the Seduction Community.
My main three external life focuses are
Health,
Wealth
and
Relationships
I don’t know if you guys have the same focuses. Apparently not. Apparently none of the ‘men’ out there care about improving their relationships. They don’t think that’s a priority. Their not bothered if they don’t get laid. Or if their girlfriend is fat. Which she is.
I thought this was a personal development forum!!
Lets look at some of the excuses that have been trotted out as to why pick up is bad:
1. “Those techniques only work to get one night stands. I’m deeper that that.”
Firstly. One night stands are ****ing ace. Sometime I just wanna grab some girl who looks hot and take her back to mine and **** her and never see her again. And you know what? So do you. Maybe some people do think one night stands are wrong. And I respect that. But most people don’t like them because they can’t get them so they build up an ego around that. If someone mentions how they had a fun one night stand, they look at them with disgust. It probably less painful for them to do that then to have to look at them with envy or jealousy.
Secondly. Have you studied the techniques? No. So many posts and ebooks on the community are written about maintaining a relationship. Heres
one. Heres
another. Oh look there's one
here as well.
2. "I’m already in a loving relationship."
Think that’s going to last forever? Only if you die first. Anyway lets face it. You could do better. Especially if you studied seduction. She’s fat isn’t she? She’s a little bit rotund and its always bothered you.
And do you really know how to please your wife or girlfriend. I can tell you one thing for dam sure. I really know how to please your wife or girlfriend. So if you don't want me pleasing her down some back alley while your at 'toastmasters' you better learn.
The seduction community has lots of advice for men in relationships, especially about being a really man, masculine and feminine polarity and sex.
3. "I’m already good with women."
Really? When was the last time you got laid? How many girls have you slept with? Well? How many? Sixish? What do you mean sixISH? Oh you mean five. Well don’t be a ego chode about it. At least have the courage to admit you suck.
Anyway say you are good with women – say you’ve slept with hundreds of women. Do you not at least, could you not even CONSIDER the possibility that there’s something you could learn from someone who’s slept with THOUSANDS of women. (That’s not me by the way I’ve only slept with 18 girls.)
Or say you have slept with thousands of women. Don't you think you owe it to the world to give us newbies some advice? Either way this is no excuse.
4. "Pick Up is deceptive."
Your mum is deceptive.
Pick up is deceptive like sales is deceptive. Lol. What a load of bollocks. You give me a honest man - teach him some sales skills - and he’ll be an honest salesman. You give me a dishonest man or a wishy-washy not sure of his morals man – teach him some sales skills – and he’ll be a dishonest salesman.
Some pick up gurus do teach men to bend the truth. Mystery for example. Some teach them to outright lie. Others like Sean Messenger or Jonny Soprono are very much focused on honesty and authenticity towards women.
5. "It all about confidence and I don’t need that, I’m already confident."
Uhuh. It’s all about confidence is it?
If you’ve had a great date with a woman and then she won’t kiss you. What do you do? You try again, but she refuses again.
All the confidence in the world won’t help you here. All that’s needed is a little knowledge of women’s psychology. What’s the answer? If you’ve got any sense you’ll do a google search and find out for yourself.
You can have all the confidence in the world but if you don't understand women's psychology, you're done for.
Anyway most people who say this aren't that confident with women. They are confident. In their jobs, or in other areas of their life. But I bet their to scared to approach a random woman in a bar. I've been shot down more times than the Japanese, thats real confidence.
6. The techniques seemed focused on pick up women in bars and clubs “that’s not a natural fit for me.”
Did it ever occur to you that clubs are fun places where people go to dance and mess around? Did it ever occur to you that intelligent girls sometimes go to clubs to let loose? Also smoking hot girls that are fun to have sex with go to clubs.
And not all the theory focus on bars and clubs. Most of it is about becoming a better MAN. Clubs are just a good place to practice.
Are you ready for the FINAL EXCUSE? It’s a good one.
“I’m too ****ing scared to go out into the real world, push myself and meet women. I’d rather stay procrastinating behind a keyboard, not getting laid, but feeling good about myself because I do ‘personal development.’"