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Originally Posted by BeyondtheWrap  Love this! Friends with benefits is exactly my ideal setup! True, I have been a KJ for a while, but my happiest times have been when I had a FB, whereas my most distressing times have been when I was in a relationship. |
I can appreciate that
Not everyone
can be comfortable in sexual exclusive relationships, and for those among us who have overwhelming needs beyond those which can be served by
any single partner, 'relationships' in the traditional, monogamistic sense are untenable.
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Originally Posted by BeyondtheWrap Is this your whole method, Johnny? Or is it one of many? |
While what I've detailed in the
Original Post is written to facilitate transitioning an existing, ongoing long-term friendship into one which includes the potential for a sexual component, everything I write fundamentally begins with the essentials from here:
The 'Inner Game' of Life
As far as relationship-management goes, I have begun another thread, but it's critical to read both the TWO Original Posts, the first-and-second in the thread, before commenting or asking for clarification! That thread is here:
My 'Two Rules' to happy, comfortable non-exclusive relationships
Since my lifestyle philosophy stems from these concepts, there is
never any surreptitious or deceptive posturing - I am completely unabashed, and unashamed of my frame, and I present it clearly and as simply as possible,
RIGHT UP FRONT -
certainly before deciding to take someone home to bed!
Johnny Soporno
Worthy Playboy