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I am diametrically opposed to that kind of thinking but I want harmonious relationships and don't want to act fake either. How can I stay true to myself and still allow another to believe whatever they want?
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I don't see how it is possible to have all of the things you'd like -
1. Them to change their thinking with no external prompt to do so (might happen but not super likely)
2. A harmonious relationship given the circumstances as you explain them (you withholding your feelings and judging theirs and them likely oblivious to the cause of uncomfortableness yet feeling it anyway)
3. Not acting fake (again you are being "fake" so I imagine you will continue to be uncomfortable with how you are acting in their presence)
You ask how you can stay true to yourself and still allow another to believe what they want. Expressing your beliefs in a respectful and clear manner in no way interferes (as in not allowing) with their beliefs. If they question their beliefs or you yours after communicating honestly that seems to be exactly what you desire - open, honest communication.
Being open is scary and there might even be a price to pay. In my humble opinion it's worth it though (and I speak from experience - both positive and negative). Good luck!
Urghhh...how did I mess up the quote thingy?? :P
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