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Old 01-08-2007, 08:09 AM   #9 (permalink)
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OK, I think you are on the right way, you have a good reason for change so it will be easier. Your 'shutting' is caused by one or two things:

- lack of energy
this can be easily fixed by getting a sleep cycle that fits you

- some deeper problem with people
maybe deeply inside you just don't want to show your friends that you like them, maybe you believe that they will hurt you once you are positive about them? Think about what are your REAL motives and see how they feel.

Surrounding yourself with positive people is a great method, your problems may just fade away automatically if you do that. You don't even have to talk to them just observe how they interact (even watching movies with positive people might help).
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