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Originally Posted by ddjames  Comparing myself to other guys is a problem I (30 yo male) seem to be having.
The other day I was at the store. I see a rather good-looking female with a guy who looks poorly dressed, below-average looks, etc.
It seems as if this happens a lot whenever I go out.
I don't begrudge the guy but I can't help but think, "What is he doing that I'm not?" or "How come I'm single while this other guy is with a fine woman?"
I don't like this kind of thinking.
What am I missing here? |
You shouldn't compare yourself to anyone. You are unique and you should be happy about it and not get depressed that you are still single. Be happy about it and be sure that you will soon meet someone you really like!
When you make a big deal out of situations like that, you lose out. Take it easy and you will get in the flow.