Otenka,
Unquestionably it relates to my own insecurity.
Yet the problem I've seen is not that women are superficial.
It's that I take time to work on my attributes, interests, and career yet I observe women choosing men with no ambition, prospects, etc.
Jenny,
I believe it has more to do with a nagging concern that I'm working too hard .... and not reaping the same benefits as someone I perceive as a 'slacker.'
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