Maybe such arousal of that thought is due to your own insecurity regarding relating to women. Deep down you think it's unfair you have no girl yet are more dashing and better dressed then the guy who has a girl despite being less resourcefull than you when it comes to looks.
I suggest you appreciate that there are girls that aren't superficial and that you shouldn't try too hard, just be yourself but you have to trigger social invitations, isolation leads to nowhere even if you are good looking and well dressed.
This may be sounding like I'm implying that you are good looking and nicely dressed despite you did not gave any information regarding your own looks but I'm just putting it this way to explain my reasoning easier.
I think that as long as you are confortable with yourself and confortable with the lack of having a woman by your side (but still remaining actively social) those thoughts should clear out.
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