it sounds like a sure symptom of insecurity. however, it tends to drive people away eventually (i know since i exhibit the same tendencies). i don't see what else you can do except focus on yourself and your interests. think to yourself - would you be in love with her if she focused on your every move and became upset if you spent time with friends? probably not. i think i read something here that resonated with me - become the person YOU would want to be with. so if you think you would want to be with someone who is like you are right now, then so be it. some people like the way you behave, but do you want to be with them? no, you are in love with a beautiful, independent girl. focus on becoming that person - that you would want to be with. that's all you can do. well, that's what i think... and what i'm trying to do right now
