Accept it. With maturity comes the realization that ALL of us will change over time: a little extra weight, a little less fit, a change of style, signs of aging, etc.
One thing you might want to explore is if this is a symptom of a bigger problem. Could she be suffering from depression? Would giving her an ultimatum help her over the depression ... I don't think so. If you care about her, you'd work through it with her with compassion and love.
If a little weight change bothers you terribly, it's a sign the relationship was shallow to begin with. She deserves better than someone who can no longer love her if she changes appearance.
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