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pyrogen · 01-26-2009, 08:02 PM

You're LOSING YOUR MOJO!!! NEVER LOSE YOUR MOJO!

Never, NEVER chase the guy.

Stop calling him. In fact, lose his number. Delete it. Don't visit him until he's visited you again. Let him come up with a way to bring you two together. He'll love it, really. A guy who really likes you will move heaven and earth for you, or at least will move heaven and earth WITH you.
You're not hurting him. It's fun for him.

Work on your own mojo and start dating other people. If the ball is in his court, you've lost your mojo. Your mojo is why he liked you.

Don't worry, he can smell your mojo half a world away. He'll call the moment you have your mojo back. Happens all the time.

A lot of people hate this book but it's really the best tough love kind of manual out there for this kind of thing... you need The Rules. Google "Rules" "Fein" "Schneider". You're not actually manipulating anyone or making people do things they don't want to do, it's just a system for weeding out the people who aren't ALREADY meeting your needs. That's not manipulation.

01-26-2009, 08:02 PM	#22 (permalink)
pyrogen Senior Member Join Date: Nov 2008 Posts: 568	You're LOSING YOUR MOJO!!! NEVER LOSE YOUR MOJO! Never, NEVER chase the guy. Stop calling him. In fact, lose his number. Delete it. Don't visit him until he's visited you again. Let him come up with a way to bring you two together. He'll love it, really. A guy who really likes you will move heaven and earth for you, or at least will move heaven and earth WITH you. You're not hurting him. It's fun for him. Work on your own mojo and start dating other people. If the ball is in his court, you've lost your mojo. Your mojo is why he liked you. Don't worry, he can smell your mojo half a world away. He'll call the moment you have your mojo back. Happens all the time. A lot of people hate this book but it's really the best tough love kind of manual out there for this kind of thing... you need The Rules. Google "Rules" "Fein" "Schneider". You're not actually manipulating anyone or making people do things they don't want to do, it's just a system for weeding out the people who aren't ALREADY meeting your needs. That's not manipulation. Last edited by pyrogen; 01-26-2009 at 08:05 PM.