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Originally Posted by Angela  How about giving yourself, and him, the gift of getting to know each other? You seem to have jumped quickly to a desire to nail something down, to come to some sort of arrangement or agreement, even if it's something as non-specific as "giving this a try" or "making it work." What if you were to let go of giving it a try/making it work and simply enjoy the process of relating with him? What if you were to grant him -- and yourself -- the freedom to gloriously and generously explore who each other is, free of framework? Can you imagine how that might feel? If fear comes up around that, what might you do with it? Can you picture the stress melting from you, if you were to focus on relating with him rather than being "in a relationship" with him? |
OK. I agree
I just thought suggesting to meet could make him see that this is leading to something concrete, and not just up in the air, and maybe that would give him a reason to give it (me) some more attention...
So you think I should wait with bringing that up...?
Initially I planned to wait till late Feb. before bringing up visiting him.
I would have to know a bit in advance if I plan to fly there, and Aprils my only free time coming up.
I wrote to him. I hope I didnt sound too kean
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I told him I was good, and what Id been up too (including my trip with a male-friend)...But I did tell him that Id be happy to hear his voice and if he'd like to talk on the phone...I hope he doesnt interpret that as neediness, because its not.