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Originally Posted by danas  So, what would you suggest?
We now live on other sides of the world. I just want to see if we want the same things. i.e if he too would like this to work, despite the obstacles. If he shares that intention. We hardly know each other. |
How about giving yourself, and him, the gift of getting to know each other? You seem to have jumped quickly to a desire to nail something down, to come to some sort of arrangement or agreement, even if it's something as non-specific as "giving this a try" or "making it work." What if you were to let go of giving it a try/making it work and simply enjoy the process of relating with him? What if you were to grant him -- and yourself -- the freedom to gloriously and generously explore who each other is, free of framework? Can you imagine how that might feel? If fear comes up around that, what might you do with it? Can you picture the stress melting from you, if you were to focus on relating with him rather than being "in a relationship" with him?