[Eric Roosevelt]

I think Angela worded it beautifully. In any case, it may be worth pointing out that unconditional love is a skill, just like everything else. I don't think you can wake up one morning and just say "from this point on I will always generate unconditional love", although that would be nice. First it's probably best to sort out the practical aspects of your life. If you're frustrated about practical problems or feeling out of balance, it's hard to generate any kind of higher consciousness.