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Originally Posted by Angela  Just to be clear on that, I think it's okay to be vague if you're heart is sincerely open to whatever shape the relationship takes. That's a wonderful state to be in, and it would feel great, wouldn't it? To be completely unattached to an outcome in your relationships?
What I'm talking about is not controlling the shape of the relationship. That would take all the fun out of it, wouldn't it? I'm talking about really being clear with yourself about what you want, so that you can effectively use the feedback that you receive. |
So, what would you suggest?
We now live on other sides of the world. I just want to see if we want the same things. i.e if he too would like this to work, despite the obstacles. If he shares that intention. Because if so, we can make it work. And then, when we're together, in the same place then I would want it to be exclusive. But at this stage I really dont mind. We hardly know eachother. At this stage if he tells me he fell in love with someone else I wont feel betrayed at all, sad maybe, but not betrayed, because he's free to do whatever he likes as long as Im not by his side. and Im free to do the same.
Last night I decided I was going to focus on the connection rather than my fears. This morning he wrote again. just wishing me luck with something I have coming up and sending me kisses...Hes probably worried that I didnt write yet...
I looked at the dating site where we met and he hasnt logged in since we met a month ago
