Thank you ltl
Today was a rough day. I told her not to contact me any more. Without going into details, she was particularly inconsiderate about the course of the break-up and where normally I try to stay friends with my exes, I just couldn't justify it in this case. I'm feeling a bit better now, and I don't think it will take me that long to get over her. My friends all cheered me up by coming up with funny ways I could get back at her.
I guess the ultimate truth is that she has done me a favor by disqualifying herself. I've known deep down that she wasn't someone who I would want to be with for the rest of my life, and now I can move on. There were some great things about our relationship, and some great things about her, but we simply aren't a match. I need to mature and in turn find someone who is more mature to share my life with.