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Originally Posted by John Wesley  I'd be pissed. I would ask her what is wrong and why she lost all motivation. I would tell her I don't find her as attractive as I used to and that she should start working out again. And if she refused to do anything about it I would probably break up with her.
Call me superficial if you'd like, but gaining 30 lbs. is a sign of sloth and depression. I would try and help her if I could, but if she is happy that way doesn't want to make an effort, I would have to do something about it. One of the reasons you start dating a person is physical attraction, if that changes, so does the relationship. It would be stupid to stay with someone who doesn't care about making you happy and is holding you back. |
Hey dude, when I was 127, I was so depressed. (I'm 5'10") Now I'm 147 and so very happy. Sometimes small weight means someone feels terrible and nothing is right with the world. Granted, 20 lbs is not 30, but don't be so harsh. My bf loves me, that is what is important.
Also, if a woman is really tall, 30 lbs is almost unnoticable. I look fantastic, by the way.