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Thanks for advice, comments and resources, everyone
H.S- I really liked your links and well thought out feedback. Thanks a ton. Especially the youtubetube links were awesome.
Bradshaw
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I would suggest that you don't worry too much.
Cast off your fears and limiting beliefs, and you shall be massively rewarded
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Thanks for the good wishes. Yes. Detaching from the need is the key and shifting my mentality of lack will bring the situations needed into my life.
Angela
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What would you be being if you were "in a relationship"?
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I'd be the same person. The only and the most important thing I have to offer into the relationship is honesty. I will still have my opinions, feelings and the baggage I've brought from since the day I was born. And my weaknesses will linger for a while ( This is not a cop out ).But, being that I will also be aware of the fact that the person I'm in a relationship with will also have her opinions, preferences and emotional baggage in her life. That will expose me to a myriad of experiences in my life, because now I'm relating to a different human being. At least that will train me to accept people as they are.
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I think most of my problem was my mindset towards relationships. Being that, I probably didn't attract any compatible people anyway ( I wouldn't date any of my friends, they're view of the world is fundamentally different from mine) If I meet a compatible person and see mutual interest I will initiate a relationship. Thanks for the advice about initiation.
About PUA- I would not take this way. PUA's act based on fear mentality. These people target people's weaknesses and anxieties of not being in a relationship ( hmmm.... does it ring a bell about you, N64?
) blow it out of proportion and devise methods and tactics of "picking up" women. I do not want to do that. We're talking about humans here, and women are not something to be picked up to show your social/sexual prowess. By some freak accident if I don't be in a relationship for the rest of my life, so be it. That'll be the way universe expresses itself through me.