Just to be clear on that, I think it's okay to be vague if you're heart is sincerely open to whatever shape the relationship takes. That's a wonderful state to be in, and it would feel great, wouldn't it? To be completely unattached to an outcome in your relationships?
What I'm talking about is not controlling the shape of the relationship. That would take all the fun out of it, wouldn't it? I'm talking about really being clear with yourself about what you want, so that you can effectively use the feedback that you receive.
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