Hi raw,
Yeh, i'm glad i did too - i would have felt empty if i didn't do what i did - couldnt bare the thought of not ever speaking/seeing him again.
I think we are being true to ourselves when we are being true to others and I know this guy is hugely flattered and respectful of what i said. I think life is about taking those risks sometimes and i think you should too because there's nothing worse than regretting the things you never did in life... Irrespective if he's in a r'ship or not, i'd find a way to get in touch - maybe he's dreaming about still finding the 'one' deep down...
btw - I'm 28, female from the UK
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