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I recieved an email from him saying that his apartment had been flooded and now renovated, everything covered in plastic, and that he had a guest staying with him last week- basicly explaining why he hadnt written.
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^I had a feeling you were being overly paranoid...
(I have to comfort my friends all the time, because everyone secretly freaks out when they haven't heard from their crush in X number of days.
And sometimes it's not even personal. Sometimes there's a legitimate explanation for the lack of contact, and you find out that you wasted 7 days of stress and sadness over nothing.
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I think you definitely need to communicate how you feel though. You guys need to be on the same page... and you can only get there by opening the lines of communication. Just talk to him on the phone, and say what you're thinking.
Just let him know that you miss him, and that you can come visit if he wants you to. Say whatever you feel.
Unless he's
really really really shy, then he'll probably go along with it and say whatever's on his mind, too.