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rawxstasy · 01-25-2009, 06:09 AM

Hi everyone,

I have a question about synchronicity. Three years ago, I was taking an anatomy lab and the instructor and I become very close. When I talked with him, I felt so comfortable with him, like I could tell him anything. There was this deep connection between us. We were going to see each other after the semester but I guess he got scared and changed his mind. The next semester, he saw me in my car at a stop sign. I live in a town of 30,000. After that we would see each other passing by in our cars at least twice a month and I was in this town only on weekends because by then I was in nursing school in another town. This went on for 3 years, there were also a number of times we ran into each other at the store etc. but we were both too shy to say much to each other. A few months ago, he moved out of state. These events just bother me so much. What did this mean that we would "coincidentally" run into each other so often? We lived on opposite sides of the town, I had no idea what his schedule was and I wasn't stalking him.

Does anyone have any ideas what this was about? Why does synchronicity happen?

01-25-2009, 06:09 AM	#1 (permalink)
rawxstasy Senior Member Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: Madison, WI Posts: 961	Synchronicity Hi everyone, I have a question about synchronicity. Three years ago, I was taking an anatomy lab and the instructor and I become very close. When I talked with him, I felt so comfortable with him, like I could tell him anything. There was this deep connection between us. We were going to see each other after the semester but I guess he got scared and changed his mind. The next semester, he saw me in my car at a stop sign. I live in a town of 30,000. After that we would see each other passing by in our cars at least twice a month and I was in this town only on weekends because by then I was in nursing school in another town. This went on for 3 years, there were also a number of times we ran into each other at the store etc. but we were both too shy to say much to each other. A few months ago, he moved out of state. These events just bother me so much. What did this mean that we would "coincidentally" run into each other so often? We lived on opposite sides of the town, I had no idea what his schedule was and I wasn't stalking him. Does anyone have any ideas what this was about? Why does synchronicity happen? Last edited by rawxstasy; 01-25-2009 at 06:12 AM.