Interesting. I'm really pleased that you've noticed that you have these thoughts that might not even be true! That's great!
If you're up for it, you can find out where those thoughts come from and what they mean to you.
What does it mean to you to lose your personal freedom? What kinds of personal freedom do you think you will lose?
What makes you think you will lose it? Whose relationship are you modelling were lose of personal freedom is an issue?
Can you imagine a way of having a relationship where you maintain the level of personal freedom that feels right to you?
(sorry for all the questions!)
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