Thanks for the reply, guys. Angela, All the time that I've lurked the forum I've seen that you're a very kind hearted person. Appreciate your post.
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Are you afraid of relating to women, or are you just afraid of being in a relationship?
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Being in a relationship. First step is that I've identified my weakness. But it's ingrained.
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What do you think you'll gain from being in a relationship?
And, what do you think you'll lose by being in a relationship?
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Gain- Mutual love, finding more of my insecurities
Lose- Personal freedom.
Thanks for your post too, H.S. This was a real eye opener. In the truest sense, I ( we all ) live our lives based on the stories we've told ourselves all our lives. A second look at my replies shows me that the story I tell myself include "oh I'll lose my personal freedom" which may or may not happen. But in the end, it's just a feeling. Which may not be even true.