Hey dude.
Big thing is to have a hobby or cause or something, learn about it, go to meetings and hang with other people who do it.
You could probably donate time to a homeless shelter and feed people.
You could become a dj and start throwing parties.
You could look up an environmental group in your area.
Best thing that leads to socialization is being active and doing things to make your life better, or having alot of fun. you meet people doing these things, conversation is not awkward because you're talking about what you're doing and it has meaning.....
so yeah, that's my opinion. be active, be healthy, meet people into that sort of thing.
think of something you like that's not watching t.v., getting drunk in bars, watching movies, and find other people into it, and BE ACTIVE!!!!!
the reason you might not be able to carry on a conversation with people is because you have nothing in common with those people.
so you need to hang out with people you have somehthing in common with.....
my 3 cents
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