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Old 01-24-2009, 12:51 AM   #16 (permalink)
RRR
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Please pardon the RDD.

You come off as needy, pessimistic and expecting rejection. If you have friends who aren't interested in doing things with you, make more friends. You are worthy of friends.

Why do you keep trying Fridays? Seriously...try setting up Tuesdays and Thursdays and see what happens.

Do you know why people don't like you? I'd wager its because you believe people don't like you, so you over-compensate, come off as needy and depressed, and bring people down. You resonate with rejection, you expect rejection, you get rejection. Why keep messaging people who continually reject you? Are you particularly intimate with these people or do you keep everyone at a distance? It sounds more like you are having trouble bridging the gap between acquaintance and friendship, try harnessing oneness and treating everyone your friend, lower your shields.
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