I reckon it's probably nothing fundamentally wrong with your personality, it may just be the way you interact with people. It's probably unconscious, so you may consider asking people what they think of you, honestly and they may be able to point to it in some vague way. I do this every once in a while with my friends, 3 things they like and three things they don't. So far, I've always gotten good feedback. It might be something minor like not meeting another person's eyes, or perhaps looking at them too long, or standing too close or too far. I dunno if you're in your native culture, but if you're not, there may be some stuff there you have to adjust to like I did when I first came to Canada.
Anyhoo, yea, so the way you interact with people would be the first step. Another thing may be to consider whether you're in a social group like yourself. The only advice I can offer here is to go out and meet more people, you may find more people who're similar to you. I was part of a group for like three years and eventually left when two of the guys got together and ripped me a new one for being too happy. Not kidding. Maybe you just need to find new people who're more compatible.
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