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My intent here is to help and I want to say that right off because I feel like I'm about to say something that might peeve you or even hurt your feelings.

From what I've seen of you on the boards, you have quite a negative mindset. You may say, "Of course I do, people are always avoiding going to the movies with me!" or something. I guess what I mean is that it seems like you expect bad things to happen, you expect people not to like you or want to hang out with you. It means something about you if you don't get taken up on your offer to go check out a movie. In reality that's about as far from the truth as you can get.

For me, there's a finite amount of time in which I get to have fun. I can't even remember the last time I went to a movie. I think it was The Dark Knight. And I love movies. I'd wager that either one or a combination of the following two things is happening: people are busy and only have time for a select few outings or they are being held at arms length by your attitude.

Again, I know this wouldn't be something you want to hear. And if I'm way off base, please accept my apology. Just something to think about.