Perhaps you could ask your friend what activities he does like and the two of you could go and do some of those things together. Let him decide what he would like to do. If he is ok with it maybe you can even invite one or two of your other friends along, but pre-warn them first to stay as positive as possible and not to react to his negativity, and show him a good time. Don't talk about him needing help or anything to do with personal development.
Keep it lighthearted, try and stick to topics that make everyone feel happy and relaxed and let him see life is ok. It might seem like a lot of hard work but you sound like you have been a good friend to him and let him know that you care about him and that although his family might be tough on him, not everyone is like that. There are people who would like to help him if he gives them a chance. Even emotionally strong people need help and that's nothing to be ashamed of.
John
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