The whole post just made me go "Yes, yes, yes, YES!!!" This has been my view on sexuality for a long time now, and I feel like you've been picking words out of my brain!
Except that this is not a new realization for me in any way LOL.
"If you were a vibrational match for sexual abundance, you could go out tonight, meet someone compatible, and have great sex together. People do this all the time."
I can say with absolute certainty that this is true. This is also part of the reason I wish everyone would do burlesque
it's like a shortcut for learning to feel comfortable with your own sexuality.
Originally Posted by Eric Revelin
Where did Steve say you must have sex and that you have to love it? You're putting words into his mouth. If you don't wanna have sex that's your business. Steve was talking about people who make it into a moral issue and stigmatize human sexuality. Usually if someone is incredibly vocal about it then they're repressed and they're trying to justify their own repression by telling everyone else they need to repress themselves too. That's a different gambit than, "Eh, it's not my thing." That's not repression, that's an earnest lack of desire. Big difference.
Absolutely agree with this. For instance, my sister is very sex-positive and in fact has a large number of friends who are non-mainstream (flexible gender, transgender, bisexual, homosexual, power exchange people, etc.) and is very comfortable with any of that energy, but although I happen to know she loves to...enjoy herself...she is just not interested much in sex with other people. And that is totally fine - it definitely doesn't come from a disconnect with her own sexuality in anyway, it's just what she likes.