I don't think that the people who said you were just in it for the sex also thought that it was wrong that you were just in it for the sex. Probably if they thought anything was "wrong" it was the possibility that you were trying to cover up your real motivation with some kind of "spiritual connection" smokescreen. The "wrong" part would have been if you weren't being honest and were trying to justify your move into polyamory with a bunch of b.s. about consciousness-raising when really you just wanted to get your rocks off with multiple partners.
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