Hey Steve, very nice article.
I too have noticed that when I approach people without nervousness, but with just the thought of making a connection of having fun, I am able to have flowing conversations, and everyone has a good time.
However, often this flow is lost after first contact. When we meet people multiple times, and get to know them better, insecurities arise on both the sides. These insecurities keep the flow from going smoothly. Off course not conversations will have these insecurities and also they are felt more with some people that with others.
I have noticed that our (this is something that I have personally experienced) insecurities prevent us from making soulful connections with other humans. I have been thinking, if having a totally fearless (and compassionate) attitude towards life helps us make better and deeper connections with other people.
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