Are you ready to spend the rest of your life lying to your kids? Does these kids deserve only a part-time dad? Which family will you choose when both kids have a big event at school? If something happens to one of the "wives", are you ready to reveal your big lie to everyone when you blend the orphans in with the rest of the family... or will you let them be orphans and a ward of the state? If you break up with one of the "wives", will the kids from family #2 get any support or will they starve so you can keep the secret easier?
Sorry, strongsloth, but I feel your behavior is extremely dishonest and selfish, and I cannot give any advice to help you maintain this false life. What will you tell this kids when they become adults? They will eventually find out.
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