That's great, danas! I'm all for directness and even boldness, but so many times women make the mistake of rationalizing their fears by telling themselves "I'm just a direct and bold person! I go after what I want, I don't play games in relationships!" And if you read some of the PUA material, you'll see that there is actually study in how to exploit such insecurities, and some brilliant men just do it intuitively. Please just do a periodic triage on yourself, and notice if there is stress in your desire around being with this guy -- that's how you'll know if it's really directness, as opposed to old pain.
So. Who are the lucky three guys whose lives you are going to go out today and engage with?
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