Oh, and think about your own family too - do you want to spend your whole life lying to your children? Surely if they know about you they'll let it slip sooner or later how they have "two mommies". Do you want to risk people finding out this way or will you rather force your children to live in a lie all their lives?
Love, and marriage, require a huge commitment from all sides involved. Sounds to me like your "wives" just don't want to commit to the marriage by telling their families about it.
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