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Originally Posted by danas  But now I havent heard from him for a week.
I thought of flying over there in Easter. |
I got to these lines, danas, and I felt like shouting to you through the ethernet: DON'T DO IT!!!!!
I have been there -- he pulls away, so she chases after him, so he pulls away more, so she chases after him more. She is bewildered -- what happened?!? And the more she tries to figure it out, the more she tries to "fix" it, the less interested he gets, until finally he lies to her and tells her he met someone else.
Danas, I wish I could save you that pain, which is far worse than what you're experiencing now, and much harder to extricate yourself from. If he wants be with you, he'll find a way to be with you. (I suspect he may be acting out an old pattern with you, one he's used to -- it seems to have happened with the last LDR.)
You are so fabulous and gorgeous and interesting and fun. Go out immediately and find a pair and a spare of fun men to date, and practice letting go of your attachment to this one.
Love,
Bossy Boots