Sweet Billiards Guy....
She didn't handle it very well. That's for certain. Do you want to be with someone who handles Really Important Stuff like that??
But something to consider when you've reached an equilibrium. Can you guess at any way you were in the relationship that would make her break up with you that way?
I've found it really hard when I tried to share the important stuff but the other person just would not listen; in fact, they would actively squash any kind of conversation about it. It made me not want to try anymore because I'd been rebuffed so many times. It hurt. In the end, I ended it abruptly, probably unkindly, but I felt like it was the only avenue I had left.
Just something to consider - why she didn't do it more kindly. We all do things that prompt a certain response from other people. Something to think about as you move into other relationships. Dangitall - it's never black or white.
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