One of my good friends had his wife leave him a few years ago. She seemed to be all happy in the relationship. He was certainly happy. One weekend, he went out of town for business. When he came back, all of her stuff was moved out of the house and there was a note, "I want a divorce." She was secretly unhappy and thought he would change into someone else after marriage. She was also cheating on him. Was there something my friend could've done to fix the problem? Maybe. But it wasn't likely when she didn't keep the lines of communication open throughout all of her trouble. Some people just aren't ready for that kind of relationship. Next time, try your best to be open with the girl and tell her you want her to be open with you. Yeah, there's a chance she may promise to and never do it, but that's love for you.
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