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Dharma · 01-21-2009, 11:51 AM

Step one -- be at peace with what is:

I don't have a girlfriend/boyfriend. Good.
I do have a girlfriend/boyfriend. Good.

Reception of the moment allows you to open space for the current manifestation (your current experience) to change. Being at peace with having no boyfriend does not mean you won't ever look for one. You just won't be clinging and desiring to an idea that you should have one.

I can tell you don't need a girlfriend/boyfriend now because you don't have one. That's reality and it's perfect. You have to come to realize that.

Relax. Love what is. See what happens.

01-21-2009, 11:51 AM	#11 (permalink)
Dharma Senior Member Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: NM, USA Posts: 986	Step one -- be at peace with what is: I don't have a girlfriend/boyfriend. Good. I do have a girlfriend/boyfriend. Good. Reception of the moment allows you to open space for the current manifestation (your current experience) to change. Being at peace with having no boyfriend does not mean you won't ever look for one. You just won't be clinging and desiring to an idea that you should have one. I can tell you don't need a girlfriend/boyfriend now because you don't have one. That's reality and it's perfect. You have to come to realize that. Relax. Love what is. See what happens. __________________ --There's nowhere to go, nothing to do. My blog -- New content coming soon.