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Originally Posted by lloyd21  Good blog Steve, I see in other post here that you *always* have some form of measurement stick in judging your progress: juice feasting, polyphasic sleep, even this website.
I have one question, what is your standard of measurement in polyamory success?
How will you know when you succeeded or failed? Is there a specific number of people you want to connect with (1, 6, 100, infinity?). For example am a fitness/personal development fanatic, I doubt I will ever stop working out/trying to improve, is polyamory the same for you?
It its seems totally unlike you have ever wrote about, or did you answer this question and I missed it? |
Success isn't some end result to be achieved. It's a process of learning, growing, and loving life.
Every day on this path, I'm learning more, I'm growing, and I'm having an amazingly fun time. If there is some success to be achieved, I'm already enjoying it now. The external yardsticks will be met in their own good time, but they aren't the primary reason for playing the game in the first place.