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seeker5 · 01-21-2009, 08:43 AM

loveliketheflowers,

I know the topic of your thread said "How can I get a boyfriend?"

But the body of your post read more like "Here's why it's impossible to get a boyfriend, and nobody wants to get into a real relationship nowadays". Are you sure you're open to learning how to become a girlfriend and have a wonderful boyfriend? Or are you too attached to running your current story some more that is helping create your current reality?

I'm sorry, I don't get the sense you're open to getting feedback on becoming a girlfriend who attracts a great boyfriend, I feel you're more attached to running that story of why things are awful (which you seem to feel is about people outside of you, and not something within yourself).

01-21-2009, 08:43 AM	#4 (permalink)
seeker5 Moderator Join Date: Mar 2007 Posts: 3,144	loveliketheflowers, I know the topic of your thread said "How can I get a boyfriend?" But the body of your post read more like "Here's why it's impossible to get a boyfriend, and nobody wants to get into a real relationship nowadays". Are you sure you're open to learning how to become a girlfriend and have a wonderful boyfriend? Or are you too attached to running your current story some more that is helping create your current reality? I'm sorry, I don't get the sense you're open to getting feedback on becoming a girlfriend who attracts a great boyfriend, I feel you're more attached to running that story of why things are awful (which you seem to feel is about people outside of you, and not something within yourself).