I'm not entirely where whether you were just commenting or whether you were asking for help on that issue. I'll assume the latter.
If you haven't read this blog entry, it might help?
http://www.stevepavlina.com/blog/200...rsonal-growth/
I might also suggest reading The Power of Now. That book helped me become more present, instead of thinking about the future excessively or what "could be" or what "should be", accept what is and decide to go ahead with it.
HTH.