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Originally Posted by pyrogen  You are never really sure if the person is into *you* or if they just couldn't have someone "higher on their ladder". You never really feel secure. |
Surely though, if you use artificial material to get someone interested in you, you can never be sure if the person is into you or into the material.
If I got a job using forged credentials I would never feel confident that I legitimately deserved to be there. How is it different if I get a woman using a forged personality?
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Originally Posted by chrisentheo I think PUA is more the icebreaker and technique. In the long term PUA seems deceiving and not the real you. Its a way to attract a woman, but maintaining the attraction, PUA can only do so much before the woman loses interest of the 'novelty.' There is only so much 'sarging' and 'negging' you can do before you run out of techniques. My 2c  |
Interesting perspective, thanks.
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Originally Posted by Neblasian In the book "The Game" by Neil Strauss Mystery succumbed to major depression each time a girlfriend dump him. This is a guy that reportedly slept with hundreds of women. |
To be fair, Mystery suffered from mental illness long before he became a PUA, so he's probably not the most representative sample.