hmm well how about thinking about responding to the other person with love, because if you are worrying about what they think, and you assume they are thinking something bad, then you respond angrily by being mean in response to an imagined situation. instead, you could a) think that you are such a loving person that you attract only loving thoughts, and b) if you persist in thinking that people are thinking about you negatively, counter it with your own good thoughts about the person in question (and words).
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